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Counseling Associates, P.C.

108 West Clifford Street

Winchester, Virginia 22601

540 - 665- 1848


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Divisions: 

The Counseling Center, Imago Relationship Therapy - Online Couples Workstation - and
The C.G Jung Center  for growth and education for the whole person.

Mental Health Counseling is like Education;

some of it is remedial, most of it is growthful,

all of it is good for you, and you can't get too much of it!

Individual, couple, family and group counseling services are offered in addition to seminars; educational, enrichment and consciousness raising groups including relationships, men's issues and Mind/Body/Spirit Integrative Health Education for prevention and high level wellness. 

Our approach to mental health counseling and education emphasizes prevention, wellness, and positive mental health for individuals and couples. We bring over 30 years of experience with a unique orientation that blends traditional counseling and psychotherapy with Jungian Psychology, Imago Relationship Therapy, and Body/Mind techniques. Cost effective? If you can't afford prevention how can you afford illness? A year of counseling is less expensive than one hospitalization. Click here for more information about our Integrative Health Education Services!

John C. Pierrakos, co-creator of Bioenergetics with Alexander Lowen, talks about health as follows:
"In health, which is the good or the truth of life, the reality of the human being, energy and consciousness are very much unified. Man feels this union. When man is in a healthy state, his life is a constant creative process. He is inundated by feelings of love, of oneness with other human beings. A healthy person has a positive direction in his life, and he is successful - in business, in his thinking, in his feeling of contentment with himself. In that state there is little or no sickness and no evil."

We have found that many people experience enhanced spiritual growth and awareness as a result of this wholistic synthesis of behavioral, depth, energetic, relational and self-psychologies. The new millennium is the evolutionary era in which we come to know that the mind revolves around the heart as the earth revolves around the sun! Body, Mind, Emotions, and Spirit are linked energetically as we overcome negativity through development of our True Nature.

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Jung on Enlightenment: As far as we can discern, the sole purpose of human existence is to light a candle in the darkness of mere being. (C.G. Jung, MDR) . . "The main interest of my work is not concerned with the treatment of neuroses but with the approach to the numinous. But the fact is that the approach to the numinous is the real therapy and in as much as you attain to the numinous experiences, you are released from the curse of pathology." (Jung, Letters)


Link to C. G. Jung Center of Winchester 

The Associates!

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Geoff Byrd is a Licensed Professional Counselor, Member of the American Mental Health Counselors Association, and Certified Imago Relationship Therapist, advanced clinician. He holds degrees in Psychology and Counseling from Virginia Commonwealth University and the Medical College of Virginia. Geoff specializes in relationships (which he calls "Co-Consciousness"),  including men's issues (which he calls "yin for men") and offers individual counseling for adult men and women, relationship counseling, seminars and support groups. Geoff also provides Integrative Health Education services for patients of affiliated medical practices.

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Joyce Byrd is a Licensed Professional Counselor, Board Certified as a Clinical Mental Health Counselor. She holds degrees in Modern Literature from the College of William & Mary, and in Counseling from James Madison University. She specializes in women's issues and creative expression; also being a writer, poet, photographer and publisher of Winterberry Creations.

Stephen Armstrong, Ed.D. is a Licensed Professional Counselor, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, and National Certified Counselor. He offers a range of services to children, adults, and couples.

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Lorraine K. DeZarn, Ed.S. Counselor in residence. Counsels with children, adolescents, and adults. 


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Maureen Gorman, LPC incorporates art, play, story and talk in therapy specializing in children, adolescents and family issues, particularly family changes.

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Deborah Rinta is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist bringing over 25 years experience in the fields of Family Therapy,  Health & Human services and her gifts as a practitioner of Integrated Kabbalistic Healing tm and Qigong.  She has extensive training with both Jason Schulman and Chyline as well as Master Chunyi Lin.

Adelaide Avery Turnbull holds degrees in Psychology and Art from James Madison University and in Art Therapy from Eastern Virginia Medical School. Adelaide is Licensed Professional Counselor and a Registered Art Therapist. She is experienced in working with adults and adolescents and specializes in child and family Art Therapy.

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Trina Welpott, LCSW offers services primarily to older adolescent girls and young women.

Services:

(The Following Links are for more detailed descriptions of services)

A Time for Couples.
Services to help couples identify the unconscious factors in their relationship in order to heal, repair, and further the individuation of each partner in a safe, committed, and loving relationship.

      The Couple's Workstation is an online membership website area designed for couples who are doing the kind of relationship work that we practice here at the Counseling Center for Imago Relationship Therapy.  This may be used as a helpful supplement to counseling, or simply as a relationship enhancement tool that you can benefit from on your own. We are pleased to offer it to you as an additional service in the privacy and comfort of your home.

     You may take a free tour by clicking on the following link:  Gateway to the Couple's Workstation . Be sure you have turned on your speaker system! If you have any questions about the forms or processes, we would be happy to help! Call or email Geoff Byrd, above.

Psychological Type.
Using typology for increased understanding of oneself and one's partner furthers growth for individuals and couples. Learn how type affects communication styles, expression of needs and feelings, playing, "fighting", and other shadow elements.

Dream Study Groups. (Educational)
Dreams provide a deep and rich source of insight and understanding that connects us with a wisdom far beyond ourselves. As we unravel their meaning we become more aware of who we truly are.

Counseling Services.
Services are available for individuals and couples who may be experiencing stress, anxiety, depression, and for those who may be recovering from addictions, abuse, neglect, or co-dependency.
Additionally, specialized services are offered for Child, Adolescent, and Family Counseling.

Art Therapy.
Specialized Art Therapy Services are available for Children, Adolescents, Adults, and Families!

Consciousness Development: "CD" groups.
Educational groups for Consciousness Development. (See Mind-Body-Spirit Groups under Seminars, below.)

Seminars: Descriptions of groups and seminars offered.


A Time for Couples.

Self Realization Through Conscious Relationship.

"The Unconscious purpose of a committed relationship is personal development and self-completion." --- Harville Hendrix.

"Whenever we speak of a 'psychological relationship' we presuppose one that is conscious, for there is no such thing as a psychological relationship between two people who are in a state of unconsciousness." --- C.G. Jung.

"Human beings are not very keen on substituting reality for the allurement of fantasies. We prefer to go on looking for the perfect man or woman, that is the man or woman who will fit our ideal image and guarantee that we are happy and fulfilled, even though it leads to one disappointment after another, and adds more and more bitterness to our cup of life". --- John A. Sanford.

"We have not yet learned to handle the tremendous power of romantic love. We turn it into tragedy and alienation more often than we evolve it into enduring human relationships. But if men and women come to understand the psychological dynamics behind romantic love and learn to handle them consciously, they will find a new possibility of relationship both to themselves and to others." --- Robert Johnson.

Imago Relationship Therapy is the first systematic theory of marriage and marital therapy derived exclusively from the study of couples. Its aim is to help couples create a "conscious marriage". This entails helping couples identify and integrate their unconscious issues, so that the relationship may fulfill its natural purpose of mutual healing, collaborative self-development, and wholeness. The basis for healthy parenting, especially co-parenting, is found in the patterns learned in childhood and repeated in adult marital relationships. For "better or worse", these patterns are repeated (often unconsciously) in parenting our own children.

Imago Relationship Therapy provides the basis for understanding how relationships really work, taking into account that childhood experiences form an unconscious image (The Imago) that is then sought after in a partner. Unconscious images play a powerful role in the formation of identity and the choice of a partner. The unconscious forces that attracted us to our partner may also be the source of conflicts and power struggles that develop in the relationship. These patterns are then repeated in the parenting of our own children.

Imago Relationship Therapy provides a powerful and effective method for helping couples learn how to heal rather than continue to hurt one another, often unintentionally passing these hurts on to our own children. By becoming conscious of the childhood wounds that affect your relationship, you learn to become "wounded healers" for one another in a safe, intimate, and committed relationship, and conscious, healthy parenting together!

     The Couple's Workstation is an online membership website area designed for couples who are doing the kind of relationship work that we practice here at the Counseling Center for Imago Relationship Therapy. This may be used as a helpful supplement to counseling, or simply as a relationship enhancement tool that you can benefit from on your own. We are pleased to offer it to you as an additional service in the privacy and comfort of your home.

     You may take a free tour by clicking on the following link:  Gateway to the Couple's Workstation . Be sure you have turned on your speaker system! If you have any questions about the forms or processes, we would be happy to help! Call or email Geoff Byrd, above.

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Psychological Type.

More people than ever before are rediscovering the relevance of Carl Jung's work around psychological type. Many further contributions have been made including instruments for determining your typology. Much exciting work is being done to help individuals to understand themselves better, to further true compassion and intimacy in relationships, and to increase the effectiveness of individuals and groups, including employees and managers in work settings. Both productivity and morale are increased when the unique contributions and differences among individuals are recognized and appreciated, resulting in more authenticity and personal satisfaction at work and at play!

We offer administration and interpretation of the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator, individual and relationship counseling around type, as well as groups and lunch time discussions of typology related topics such as communications styles, behavior under stress, expression of needs and feelings, and integrating shadow aspects!

( The MBTI is copyrighted by Katharine Briggs and Isaabel Briggs Myers and published by Consulting Psychologists Press, Inc.)

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Dream Study Groups. (Educational)

"Suppose someone told you that there was something that spoke to you every night, that always presented you with a truth about your own life and soul, that was tailor-made to your individual needs and particular life-story, and that offered to guide you throughout your lifetime and connect you with a source of wisdom far beyond yourself. And, furthermore, suppose that all of this was absolutely free. Naturally you would be astonished that something like this existed. Yet this is exactly the way it is with our dreams." --- John A. Sanford

"Bringing the contents of the unconscious realm into conscious awareness so that we can know ourselves and fulfill our destinies is the sacred mission of human beings. One of the best ways I know of to answer this calling is to examine our dreams. As we decode their mysterious symbols and find ways to fit their meaning into the unfolding puzzle of our lives, we integrate the spiritual and archetypal aspects of our experience and move closer to becoming completed individuals." --- Robert Johnson.

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Counseling Services.

Individual, couples, and group counseling services are offered that may be helpful in;

Improving relationships

Recovering from childhood stress, neglect, trauma, or abuse.

Healing from addictive experiences (for those in a recovery program)

Relieving distressing symptoms such as depression and anxiety.

Increasing effectiveness at work and at home.

Achieving greater life satisfaction and growth.

Child, Adolescent, and Family Counseling is available for;

·  Behavioral and Adjustment Issues.

·  Depression and Anxiety.

·  Divorce, Loss & Grief.

·  ADD and ADHD.

·  Parenting, School and Educational Issues.

·  Trauma Recovery.

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Art Therapy

Specialized Art Therapy Services are available for:

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Consciousness Development  Groups. (Educational)

Geoff Byrd had his NDE (near death experience) when he attempted suicide at 5 years old. Out of this early personal experience evolved a lifelong search for both the healing of childhood pain and the inner quest for spiritual ecstasy. First in traditional psychotherapy and the recovery movement, then through Jungian analysis, dream work, music, Tai' Chi' and QiGong healing, Vipassana (insight meditation), and finally, out of his personal suffering and painful search for the true meaning of love, he continues to journey in the context of Self Psychology, Spiritual Partnership, Relationship as Spiritual Path, developing Psycho-Spiritual "Co-Consciousness", and the archetype of the Self.

One of the things a NDE brings is the realization that we are not merely physical beings and that we are are not alone in the universe! As Jung said; "I do not believe, I Know!" As we live into the new millennium we will all be faced with this emerging truth, a passage that is both terrifying and ecstatic as we take the quantum leap (not just the next step) in the evolution of human consciousness! Participating in this transition will hopefully assist us all in being Wounded Healers to one another as we seek psychological and spiritual healing, wholeness, and individuation on this earth.

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Seminars!

A Time for Couples, The Seminar!

This Seminar may be for you, if;

You want to enrich and deepen a loving relationship.

You are beginning a new relationship and want to continue with stability and success.

You are in a fundamentally good relationship but are experiencing some rough edges, or are concerned about loss of intimacy.

You are surviving a basically unsatisfying relationship and want to turn it around.

You are in a difficult relationship with long standing conflict and wonder if it can be saved.

You can expect to Learn:

The nature of the psyche and the role of the unconscious in your relationship.

How to Identify the hidden forces affecting your relationship.

The psychology of childhood and how it affects you and your partner today.

How to transform negative energy and defensiveness into a conscious relationship.

How to apply what you have learned to your own children.

How to become your partner's best friend and intimate lover.

How to use your relationship for spiritual development and self - completion!



Body/Mind/Spirit Integrative Health Education Groups:

 Participants learn and practice a variety of mind-body techniques to increase self-awareness, reduce stress, increase immunity, and re-energize the Self!

BODY/MIND ENERGETIC LEARNING is based both on the wisdom of ancient healing traditions and modern psychoneuroimmunology, in which mysticism and science are co-creating a new, sacred healing art. While emotions link the mind and the body, the Source behind these patterns is energetic and Spiritual. Healing and high level wellness occurs energetically as transformative repatterning and alignment with higher energies in physical, mental and transpersonal dimensions.

These training groups are appropriate for persons experiencing emotional distress or chronic illnesses as well as those interested in proactively fostering health and happiness.  Groups involve an introduction to various body/mind techniques such as biofeedback and relaxation, meditation and prayer, bio energetic exercise (Tai Chi, Qigong and Yoga), nutrition, cellular biology and the effects of consciousness and belief on health, music and artistic expression, relationships and support. Each participant will complete the program having developed a Personal, Conscious Health Plan.

Groups are limited to 6 - 10 participants and meet for 2 hours weekly in 2 four week segments or a weekend format.

Seminar on Psychological Type for Working Groups and Managers!

Why a Personality - Centered Approach to working together?!

Because the purpose is to finally be able to fathom why the people you work with react and behave the way they do! An appreciation of the different gifts that people bring to the work group may serve to enhance the quality of the working environment rather than contribute to an atmosphere of tension, conflict, and misunderstanding.

Rather than a shallow approach or quick fix solution, taking the time to really explore the nature of personality gives individuals and organizations a grasp of themselves and others that is not only personally gratifying, but may well contribute to a more satisfying bottom line.

People who are more psychologically sophisticated are better able to accept the reality of things (and people) as they really are, rather than how they may wish them to be!

People who get along and work well together through an understanding and acceptance of individual personalities- their similarity and differences - are more productive, effective, and efficient!

Authentic Management is about discovering who people really are, and encouraging them to motivate and express themselves from within, rather than attempting to manipulate and control people's motivation and behavior from without.

Personality - Centered management is not about problems or pathology! It is about the natural and healthy growth and development that is the focus of good mental health, in the work place and at home, in personal as well as professional relationships. And learning about such things at work contributes to the value of the work place in every area of one's life; economically, personally, and even spiritually.

Licensed Mental Health Counselors may not only be helpful as trainers and consultants, but also have the expertise to provide a professionally administered and interpreted personality assessment. Counseling Associates offers certified clinical mental health counselors that are specifically oriented towards facilitating the process of healthy growth and development that Carl Jung so aptly named the Individuation Process

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LINKS
Drug and Alcohol Treatment Resources
4therapy: Online mental health resources for comsumers and professionals.
American Mental Health Counselors Association
DharmaNet
DreamTree
Green Street (Archetypal Psychology)
Imago Therapy Home Page
International Association for Near Death Studies
Internet Mental Health
Journey to Wholeness: Evelyn Challis.
Labyrinth Society
Mental Health Network
Mythology/Folklore
Online Psych Information Services.
Self Improvement Online
Vipassana Meditation
Virtual Wellness Community
Vision of the Grail, Kathleen Jacoby
Viva Healing Arts 

 


This site was last updated on 10/19/2008
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Comments or feedback? e-mail Geoff Byrd